Saturday, June 18, 2011

Sex in India


It is a matter of bitter shame and sorrow and deep humiliation that a number of women have to sell their chastity for men’s lust. Man, the law giver, will have to pay a dreadful penalty for the degradation he has imposed upon the so-called weaker sex. When woman freed from man’s snares rises to the full height and rebels against man’s legislation and institution designed by him, her rebellion, no doubt, non-violent, will be nevertheless effective” - Mahatma Gandhi

Today I am writing an essay detailing the psychological effects sexual exploitation, slavery and trafficking have upon its victims, particularly in India. There a culture exists that does not recognise women as an intrinsic part of society, rather as mules for mans favour and pleasure. Of course there are always exceptions to this statement. I know Indian men who respect women and hold them in high regard. But as a general rule, India is a society that overlooks the basic needs, values and interests of its women. As a result, over 2 million women and children are trafficked into sexual exploitation.

Sunitha Krishnan is a remarkable Indian women combatting trafficking at both a micro and macro level, challenging the government and providing psychological and societal healing for victims. Her stories are told in a raw honesty rarely seen. When we talk of trafficking we often sweep over the issue, describing statistics and societal issues. Krishnan delicately portrays the horrific reality of sexual exploitation. I challenge you to watch this Ted Talk and find out more about her work. 




Thursday, June 9, 2011

Bare-feet and Zumba

You know that feeling after you've just been shopping and spent to much? It's like a rock hitting the glass lake and sinking to the bottom. You know that you've broken something. The budget, your promise to stop using your credit card, your shoe rack when you add these new pumps. I had that feeling today. It wasn't crazy sale shopping where you buy 5 tops you're never going to wear just cause they're on sale. I bought runners (ew! First pair in about 5 years - but they're pink and Nike and my Zumba instructor wears them, so they must be cool) and wedding presents (times 2!)

On my way back to work, I walked through Hyde Park. The Red Cross clad clan guard the entrance, vying for my attention, which I did not have time to give. Head down, headphones in, no eye contact. My hands were full with my purchases, and my hat attempting to fly off my head, when a pair of bare feat caught my attention. A straggly man was sitting alone on a bench, gazing down. I recognised him. He comes into our outreach cafe some days. I smiled, said hello, and asked him how he was. He bore back a toothless grin and said alright. I bid him farewell, saying, "see you at the cafe sometime soon".

What I wish I could've done was give him my new shoes, returned the gifts, bought him a yummy Oporto burger, and made sure he was sleeping somewhere other then the bushes tonight. Unfortunately I just kept walking, straight back into my job where I raise money for the homeless people of Sydney. Could I live a more contradictory life?

I will forever straddle this line between consumer and giver. I will forever live a juxtaposed life, between being the hands of Jesus and being the feet of the accuser. I will lay down my coat as a sacrifice, only to pick up another, perhaps more expensive, at the cost of another's well being.

Maybe that rock needs to continue to sink. And when that glass surface reappears, more need to break it. Life is a process of brokenness. Of never becoming so satisfied and whole, that we are blind to the man with bare feet in the middle of winter. 

Monday, June 6, 2011

Thrift Me Up.

Could you go one week with only 7 pairs of undies in your suitcase? Jessie Arrington can, even as a speaker at TED. I don't know about you, but if I were heading to speak at TED I'd be shopping up big at The Corner Store in the Strand.

Perhaps it's time I took a page out of her book, or more appropriately, an undie out of her suitcase and began my sustainable experiment. Thrift shopping is tres-chic, but what if you haven't teamed that granny cardi from Glebe markets with your S&B jeans? Can we still pull these looks off?

Jessi Arrington: Wearing nothing new | Video on TED.com